-You start realizing that there are a lot of things about yourself that you didn't know and may or may not like.
-You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.
-You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met.
-You look at your job. It is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and are scared.
-You are beginning to understand yourself and what you want and do not want.
-Your opinions have gotten stronger.
-You see what others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and add things to your list of what is acceptable and what is not.
-You are insecure and then secure.
-You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life.
-You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy.
-You get your heart broken.
- Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but maybe love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you are not a bad person.
-You go through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.
-You worry about loans and money and the future and making a life for yourself.
Symptoms:
- Feeling like a failure because your job doesn't match your level of knowledge/skills
- Frustration with the corporate world
- Uncertainty about the future
- Insecurity about reaching aspirations or completing day-to-day tasks
- Lack of ability to hold onto close friendships or romantic relationships, as well as sexual frustration
- Confusion of identity
- Loss of closeness in relationships
- A sense that everyone is doing better than you
- Strong desire to have children, but feeling this won't happen
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